What are the five gift rules? Oh! I thought they were four or is it five now? Well, yes and yes, there originally used to be four rules that governed the act of gifting but as time has evolved, a fifth one has now been adopted. Let’s look at them below.
1. Give them something they “want”.
2. Give them something they “need”.
3. Give them something to “read or play” with.
4. Give them something to “wear”.
5. Give them something to “experience”.
1. What They Want :
When it comes to the act of gifting, the first rule is to give them something they really want.
Genuine appreciation is a key component of gift giving.
Therefore, it is important to give a gift that the receiver will appreciate and in return, offer their thanks to the giver in a way that shows their heartfelt appreciation.
2. What They Need :
Depending on the relationship or dynamics between the giver and the receiver, the giver may be in a unique position to know what the receiver really needs but does not yet have.
If the giver can afford it, giving someone what they really need is a very import rule of gifting.
3. What To Read, Listen or Play With :
As a rule of gifting, giving them something they can read, listen to or play with is up there as an important aspect of gift giving.
I like this one because it shows that you are paying attention to their interest or hobbies and have gotten them something along those lines.
4. What the will Wear :
This is an equally important rule of gifting and it can present you, the giver with a unique opportunity to make an impression on the receiver.
We all have distinct taste in fashion and giving someone clothing that meets their style is a big win, when it comes to the act of giving
5. Provide them with an Experience :
Experience has been adopted as the 5th rule of giving. Gifts do not always have to be materially physical. You can give them the gift of making memories, take them on a road trip or visit a place that they have always wanted to go to.
Overall, when done right, the 5 rules of giving are there to guide you while deciding on what gift to give. There are no hard and fast rule about it, you can use just one rule or a combination of them. The most important aspect is to give and make them happy.